Am I Ready to be a Dog Parent?

If you’re reading this, you’ve likely already asked yourself the big question: “Am I ready to be a dog parent?”

No matter your initial gut answer — no, yes, maybe, I need more time, my plants are all I need — the simple fact is, you’ve already considered what life might look like with the addition of a dog. That’s a huge step in and of itself. (Think about it. Sitting in question, weighing your options, thinking about how your actions affect others — that level of consideration has the makings of a great future dog parent.) 

Readiness is a sort of fleeting feeling anyway. Moment to moment, being a beginner — or brand-new to something, anything — can be both transcendent and completely and totally terrifying. 

As you continue to ponder whether or not you’re ready for a dog, here are a few more things to think about…

1. What dog breed(s) might best fit my lifestyle? 

Fact: Different breeds come with different needs. If you’re adopting, consider what mixes of breeds might fold into the life you already lead so that the transition is more seamless and also additive. For instance, if you’re an avid runner — you can likely handle a high-energy dog, but if you’re a homebody who’s all about cuddles — maybe consider adopting a dog that’s more low-key or even a senior dog.

2. When it comes to training, how hands-on do you want to be?

Training a puppy is a lot of work. It’s joyful. But it’s also messy, time-consuming, and requires that you maintain structure (and repetition of tasks)  in your day to reinforce potty training, feeding, recall, skills, and beyond. If you work from home, freelance, or set your own schedule, it may be easier to raise a young puppy. If you travel often or have little kids, it may actually behoove you to adopt a dog who’s a few years older and already trained, and may just need some supplemental training and a safe home.

3. Can I actually afford a dog? 

When you adopt a puppy or dog, you’re essentially adding another member to your family. This increases your monthly expenses — everything from vet visits, pet insurance, vaccinations, gear (collar and tag, harness, leash, poop bags, shampoo, toys, crate, bed, cold-weather wear, etc.) and, of course, food and training treats. Some of these expenses are single, one-and-done purchases, but many of them are regular expenses to build into your budget.

4. Am I ready to adapt my life to the needs of my new dog? 

Dogs have daily needs. For their physical, mental, emotional health, and well-being — not to mention longevity — they require physical activity (walks, hikes, runs, trips to the dog park, play), attention (potty breaks, baths, training, belly rubs, vet visits), socialization (with other dogs, kids, people, and even other animals), love (over time you and your dog will figure out each other’s love languages), and beyond. It’s important to note that sometimes the needs of your dog will have to come first — that’s just part of caring for a furry dependent. An ability to be flexible and understanding are two important tools to have in your kit. 

5. You may be obsessed with the idea of getting a puppy — but do you really want a dog?

Remember, cute lil’ puppies grow up, eventually. Usually, they turn into even cuter, cooler, bigger versions of themselves. But it’s important to delineate between puppy fever and really, really wanting a dog for many, many years.

No matter what you decide, we’re glad you’re here considering it. It means you’re ready (or becoming ready) to care for another being — and that’s kind of what makes life sweet.